Chances are you or someone along the way thought you would be great at personal training. They’re probably right. That’s how it started for me, too. If so, it’s likely that you already work out and are in better shape than most of your friends, you’re good at getting people amped up, and you have a pleasant demeanor. It wouldn’t surprise me if you’ve already helped one or two of your friends begin a workout program.

That is an excellent start. But there is far more to it than that. A personal trainer has many jobs. These are some of the most important ones.

Job 1 /// Workout Buddy
This is exactly what it sounds like. Before we start out as personal trainers, many of us have it in our minds that we will be working with athletes and fitness enthusiasts. That’s what I thought, but it’s generally not the case. Although every now and then a very fit person will hire a trainer, the vast majority of your clientele will be people who never worked out seriously or haven’t worked out in 20 years, even if they lead you to believe otherwise.

When the prospective client who told you he runs marathons and usually works out four times per week shows up coughing and can barely walk up a flight of stairs, you’ll see what I mean.

These people need someone to be there, meet them, greet them, and make the workout experience less foreign to them, almost like a friendly guide to working out. That’s it. Be their gym buddy. Make it fun. We all perform better with a workout buddy.

Think of yourself as a “stand-in friend” because none of their real friends will ever join them for a workout. That’s why they hired a trainer. Who knows? Maybe you’ll even change their lives and give them a love for fitness they never thought was possible. But for now, show up on time, smile, and make sure your client moves. Try your best to help them enjoy the experience.

Job 2 /// Motivator
The role of motivator is near and dear to me. I believe it’s my biggest strength as a trainer. Being a motivator is a little different than being a workout buddy. Whereas being a workout buddy means that you’re providing companionship and guidance, being a motivator requires a little extra proverbial mustard. You need to bring out the best in them.

For some of your clients, being a motivator will mean that you, possibly literally, cheer them on as they get their first pull-up. For others it simply means that you provide accountability, making sure they show up to train instead of going to the nearest bar or fast food joint.

To provide the necessary level of motivation for your clients, it is necessary to feel them out. Just as we must step up our motivational game for some, we must recognize the possibility of being too overzealous with others. Read their signals and give them what they need. No matter the type of client, always hold them accountable. You’re the trainer. It’s usually harder for clients to disappoint you than it is to disappoint themselves.

Job 3 /// Psychiatrist
You knew this was coming. In most cases, you will have to at least occasionally listen to your clients’ problems. You will hear about their jobs, deadlines, relationships, and personal politics. Sometimes, they will even vent about financial concerns. (This is always a tricky situation considering they are paying you, their trainer, which probably adds to their perceived monetary woes.)

I am aware that this is not what we had in mind when we signed on for a career in fitness, but I’d like to put a different spin on it: You are here as a health professional. Some say the body and mind are connected. I believe that’s an understatement; they’re actually the same thing. Like the ancient proverb says: “Sound body, sound mind.”

It is likely that when your 6 a.m. client vents to you about her asshole boss, she is clearing her mind. Your client is purging her body of anxiety and negativity, essentially getting healthier. And you helped her do it. She will probably have that much more energy for the workout now that some stress has been alleviated. The workout will help to expel even more.

So be a psychiatrist. Accept it. Your client will still benefit, and ultimately that’s your job.

Job 4 /// Consultant

Again, it comes back to accountability. But unlike the motivator role we play inside the gym, the consultant helps paying customers stay accountable outside of the gym. Let’s be honest: it is impossible for a deconditioned individual to shape up if they train with you for only two hours each week and treat themselves like garbage for the other 166.

As a trainer, your job can perceivably end when the session is over, but as a consultant, you remind them not to eat those cupcakes at the party. Hell, have them text you from the party to let you know how they did. You want them to think of you when they order a salad instead of fries. Tell your clients to picture you like an angel on their shoulder at the restaurant when they order that salad.

This will help them get results and help you retain your client, and therefore you make more money. I encourage trainers to make consulting, however formal or informal, a part of every workout.

Job 5 /// Sales Person
Let’s get this out of the way now. As professional trainers, we need to get over the notion that charging money for our services diminishes our integrity.

If you are not prepared to be a sales person then you are not prepared to be a personal trainer. The sooner you get over this, the better. Doctors charge money. So do plumbers, tattoo artists, hairstylists, and accountants. Even the Pope gets paid.

This is basic economics. You have to charge money if you need things like food and shoes.

Job 6 /// Personal Trainer
Your job is to make sure that your clients get a workout that they cannot get without you. Your other job is to build a relationship. That’s it. Administering a workout they cannot get without you does not necessarily mean that you provide manual resistance for every single exercise. It doesn’t even mean that you spot them on everything. It means that they train harder, better, when you are there.

Maybe it’s the truth in your eyes that makes them lock out each of those 50 push-ups. Perhaps your words provide the nerve to pull their chin over that sweaty bar. Or maybe it’s just the comfort of knowing that you’re there for them which makes them go that extra inch deeper on every single squat. By contrast, for some folks, simply showing up late, stretching out for 20 minutes, and doing two sets of jumping jacks constitutes a workout they couldn’t do on their own. It is always good to remember that you are there for your client. It’s a broad spectrum.

That being said, one person who you are not there for is you. If your passion is bodybuilding and a potential client wants to hire a trainer to help him lose his gut or rehab an injury, then do not train him like a bodybuilder. If your possible client wants to lift weights, then your job is to teach him to lift weights with impeccable form, even if you’d rather do MMA-style conditioning drills. Not only is it good customer service to train your client in a way that is appropriate and desirable for them, but you must also accommodate them if you wish to put food on the table.

That’s right, you’ve gotta eat, and that won’t happen if you don’t have clients. This is not to say that you can’t incorporate exercises that you favor and enjoy. It simply means that you have to put your clients’ needs before your own. Trust me, in time, a good trainer finds the balance.

Be Appropriate, Be Open, Be Humble ///
Because of my profile in the calisthenics community, people are often under the impression that my clients do human flags and muscle-ups all day. That is far from the truth. The overwhelming majority of my clients are working professionals. That’s right: store managers, lawyers, teachers, and dentists.

Now only after several years, some of my trainees can slay the pull-up bar, but at the beginning, we worked on whatever was appropriate: proper form, posture, perfect push-ups, strengthening the posterior chain, etc. If lunges are more appropriate than pistol squats, then we do lunges. A classic push-up is a better exercise selection for 95% of my clientele than the one-arm variety.

Way more people want to train with me because I helped their friend look and feel better, than because they saw my YouTube channel. Young trainers who want to know how to get clients often approach me. When I ask them how they’ve gone about achieving this goal so far, they tell me they put a workout video on YouTube.

What they should be doing is spending lots of time in the gym talking with potential clients and watching professional trainers make money. They should be working on the most basic movements, learning to be comfortable on the gym floor, and training with other trainers.

Hard-earned experience will help you start your personal training career better than a thousand YouTube channels or Facebook fan pages. These websites are extraordinary in what they can potentially do, but they will seldom put you 1-on-1 in front of potential clients. And they will not make you a good trainer.

Be ready to work hard. When in doubt, consult this equation: Hours + Effort = $$$.

Danny Kavadlo –